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Reinspired Dreams and Intuitive Connections

As always when I am looking or am open to signs from the Universe many tiny threads of synchronicity show up. They usually pop up to either teach me something, inspire me to take action, or give me guidance that I am following the right path. This week I feel the signs and here are [...]

Life among the Unemployed

I have to say the on again off again lifestyle if I was financially safe and secure wouldn’t be so bad and I would think nothing of being out of work. Being creative about making even a small bit of cash is at best “interesting.” I have lived in various wealth categories: poor, homeless, taking [...]

Simple Living, The Future of America?

Sorry I haven’t posted for a bit. I have been feeling a bit off kilter due to finances. Please forgive me!
I am making a prediction which maybe isn’t one but I am hopeful it comes to pass. America will become a simplistic society in time, waste, living, and values in the next 20 years. I [...]

Manipulation isn’t sexy

Many of us people pleaser’s or people who seek the love of others use unconscious manipulation to try to get what we seek. This manipulation for the average person is under the radar and usually goes unnoticed. It is oh so sexy. Not!
Now I am not talking to extreme cases like that of a serial [...]

Forgiveness, Psst…Its not for them

We all have raised boo-boos when it comes to forgiveness. We have felt hurt, betrayed, unloved, uncared for- blah, blah, blah. Really we all have wounds, some seem deeper than others, some are made deeper by the whining about them. Through time and counseling we can still hold on to the anger, sadness, victim hood [...]

Living la vida loca! & The art of low expectations.

Well my crazy life is wonderful. I feel that I don’t always fit in, I am a bit off kilter and silly but am I friends with everybody, go figure. My roomie Jeanette*, Kirsten and I went to a goth/electronic/80’s/industrial club this past week-end. As always no matter where I go I [...]

Disapointment: My own best torture device

Disappointment has been one of my soul lessons and personal challenges. In the past, disappointment and feelings that I chose to feel from such experiences lead to massive pain, stalemate and a massive case of victim mentality. Growing up I was a hippy child in a sense; no rules, no challenges to be [...]

Hard work! What is it good for?

Well, well, little miss I hate doing anything that expends energy. Speaking to myself of course. I used to be so efficient (umm lazy), so much so that when I went to take in the laundry from the laundromat I would nearly kill myself my carrying two 30 lbs bags up the stairs just [...]

Stability tada!

Stability is funny. I look at stability as something one makes for themselves with the people and things they surround themselves with. My own journey to stability has been a process. My childhood was riddled with endless moves, I mean seriously, 18 times before my 18th birthday and I was no Army Brat. I had [...]

Laugh, Cry, & How to not go crazy in this reality.

I am an over thinker, not necessarily worrier but I think till the cows, chickens and horses come home. Habitually not always with constructive thoughts. I am also an emotional absorber, an intuitive and generally emotional. I cry at movies, puppies being hurt and cry when I empathize which is all to often. I am [...]