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Monthly Archives: May 2008

Manipulation isn’t sexy

Many of us people pleaser’s or people who seek the love of others use unconscious manipulation to try to get what we seek. This manipulation for the average person is under the radar and usually goes unnoticed. It is oh so sexy. Not!
Now I am not talking to extreme cases like that of a serial [...]

How to be a Woman!

This post is inspired by Steve and Erin Pavlina of Steve Pavlina’s Personal Development Blog. Both of these bloggers love to share their insights to help others who seek to enhance their personal and spiritual development. I would suggest browsing their pages and I am sure you will gleam more than a tiny bit [...]

Forgiveness, Psst…Its not for them

We all have raised boo-boos when it comes to forgiveness. We have felt hurt, betrayed, unloved, uncared for- blah, blah, blah. Really we all have wounds, some seem deeper than others, some are made deeper by the whining about them. Through time and counseling we can still hold on to the anger, sadness, victim hood [...]

Living la vida loca! & The art of low expectations.

Well my crazy life is wonderful. I feel that I don’t always fit in, I am a bit off kilter and silly but am I friends with everybody, go figure. My roomie Jeanette*, Kirsten and I went to a goth/electronic/80’s/industrial club this past week-end. As always no matter where I go I [...]